32 thoughts on “WhAt Do YoU tHiNk…? — What should you do … or not on a first date…”

1. Noemí Martínez Carvajal 16 February 2010 at 15:47

   Hi Rosa!
   In my opinion, in a first date YOU should meet alone. Because if you come WITH OTHER friends IT WON’T BE romantic ENOUGH.
   But YOU shouldn’t explain bad things/EXPERIENCES, nor never explain too good things for you. YOU SHOULD never go very beautiful, should come normal enough, because he/she think too presumed, it isn’t good…And with this, the first date it’s perfect… or almost PERFECT! jeje
2. Gemma-Da Conceiçao 16 February 2010 at 16:10

   These are my tips for a first date:
   1-Don’t talk about family problems.
   2-Go to the first date well dressed.
   3-Go dancING.
   4-Don’t drink much.
   5-And most importantly, HAVE fun.
3. Itziar Rebollo Cid 17 February 2010 at 16:50

   Hello Rosa!
   Im my opinion, in my first meEtING with a beautiful GOOD-LOOKING boy YOU must arrive early in this way the thinks that he is important for me YOU. You must SHOULD be/ACT how AS you are, you must be A LITTLE shy. You must SHOULD speak about happy NICE things because SO THAT THE the situation will be entertainING / AMUSING/ INTERESTING… You must spend a good time! jeje
4. Laura Cobo Bonilla 17 February 2010 at 17:23

   Hi Rosa
   Well I think a first date should be OF two individuals PEOPLE, YOU should they talk about DIFFERENT things, BUT ALSO romantic things BUT YOU to say and shouldn’t go too fast ON YOUR the first appointment.DATE.
5. Elisabet Aznar Gama 17 February 2010 at 18:23

   In my opinion, in a first date, I think it’s better to go to a quiet place to talk.
   You should talk about what you enjoy doing in your spare time.
   You shouldn’t talk about your past relationship or your previous boyfriends/girlfriends.
   You mustn’t speak all the time because he/she was WILL GET bored, let him/her talk and tell you what he/she wantS.
   You shouldn’t go very fast, what has to happen will happen when the time comes.
   Follow these tips and you will go very well!
6. Marc Domenech 17 February 2010 at 18:47

   Hi Rosa I’m Marc
   In my opinion, in your first date, you should go only BE ONLY you and the OTHER boy/girl, you should ALSO go to a quiet site PLAY, for exAmple in TO a park. You should talk about you, and you should know what he/she thinks about thinGs, you shouldn’t talk much, you should talk BUT stop when he/she is talkingWANTS TO TALK, you should say what do you think about THE thinGs he/she EXPLAINS.
   You should be polite, and funny, make him/her laugh. I think you shouldn’t talk about your last relationship, you should talk about your present life.

   If you do my advices I think you should have a good first date
7. Pol Joher 17 February 2010 at 20:37

   Hi, I’m Pol.
   In my opinion in the first date you should be positive. You must go to a place where you’re alone, where nobody will bother.
   You have to talk SHOULDN’T TALK ONLY about you, but you should know to ALSO listen. You should ask questions and you should act interested.
   You shouldn’t drink too much and you shouldn’t use the WORLD “We” …I think this is important.
8. Marta Fornells 18 February 2010 at 20:45

   Hi Rosa!
   In my opinion in a first date you don’t be SHOULDN’T gossip and don’t talk about ex boyfriends… be positive! Don’t speak by ON YOUR phone and don’t you DON’T have to compare this appointment DATE with otherS.
   Don’t you talk all the time of ABOUT you. He leaves that the other LET HIM/HER participle a little, listen TO him and speaks about subjects that he also likes.

   I think with this you can have more or less a good SUCCESFUL first date
   Bye
9. Raquel Carmona Flaquer 18 February 2010 at 21:00

   Hi Rosa! I’m Rachel.
   In my opinion, in a first date, you should be relaxed. You have to be yourself, and be funny.
   You should go to a place where you can talk, for example TO a restaurant.
   You shouldn’t be untimely LATE.
   You shouldn’t USE MUCH makeup.
   You shouldn’t speak only about you, let hIM/HER talk .
   You should PUT off the YOUR telephone, IT could bother YOUR conversation, and a he/she.
   You should have clean teeth hahaha! (JUST IN CASE the date was IS a success).
10. M. Rosa Saló i Sagué Post author18 February 2010 at 22:23

    REMEMBER TO USE:
    SHOULD & SHOULDN’T
    I THINK THAT
    I DON’T THINK THAT
    IN MY OPINION
    and… I’M NOT SURE IF…
11. Roger Cucurull 18 February 2010 at 22:40

    Hello, I’m Roger.
    In my opinion in the first date you should be very romantic becAUse the girl/boy WILL never forget thiAT night. I prefer a dinNer in a little restaurant, or in my house with candLES, and soul music etc.
    You should say she TELL HER beautiful words becAUse she/he feels confortable.
    You shouldn’t speak about your last girldfriend/boyfriend becose the girld/boy can thing than you love she/he yet.
    You should listen to HIM / HER because she/he can say a interesting thinGs about her/himHIS life.
    You should give HER/HIM flowers or a little present.
    You should tell HIM / HER about your work becAUse she/he knowS more about you.
    You should wear fashionBLE/TRENDY clothes because, if you want to be nice SAMRT IT is better TO wear the suitable clothes.
    I hope thaT you have a exellent date
12. Dimitro 19 February 2010 at 14:41

    In my opinion, in the first date you shouldn’t be nervoUs and you shouldn’t go with your friends, don’t MAKE much MANY questions ,don’t drink alcohol and don’t talk about your ex.
    Thats is all.
13. laia 19 February 2010 at 20:10

    Hi Rosa I’m Laia

    In my opinion on the first date has to be short ,of one or two hours
    You should Know how to listen
    You shouldn’t speak about your last boyfriend/girldfriend
    Procrastinate deep conversations
    I think that you should be positive.
    It is advisable that you should go have TO a quiet place.
14. Mar Cabello 19 February 2010 at 21:03

    Hi Rosa
    I think in your first date you don’t SHOULDN’T talk about your ex-BOYFRIEND and don’t say THE WORD “we” . You don’t wearing SHOULDN’T TOO casual clother, but smart clotheS.
    I think you do;SHOULD be optimist, possitive and act interestingED. If you want you talk about your family and friends and you can take a small persent for he or sheHIM/HER, you must be kind and always smile !!!
15. Marisol 20 February 2010 at 0:22

    In my opinion, in a first date you shouldn’t arrive a bit late. I think you should LOOK go tidy,SAMRT but not too tidy MUCH, you go more natural<<<YOU SHOULD BE YUORSELF. You should go to ANY quiet place for SO THAT you cAn speaks of your interests, your hobbies… and you SHOULD ALSO show interest for her/his, SO THAT you can to meet more KNOW EACH OTHER. You should be cheerful, friendly, but AND YOU shouldn’t be TOO serious. Remember you don’t put NOT TO USE too cologneMUCH PERFUME.
    And if all go good EVERYTHIG IS RIGHT, you can meet ANother day.
16. Eva Lacosta 20 February 2010 at 19:04

    I think that in the first date you shouldn’t stay nervous, but it’s difficult. In my opinion you should explain TALK about something important or interesting THINGS for the other person, your hobbies, how YOU are yourself, but never talk about the weather or your exPAST relationships with other boys.
    You should be positive and a little bit beautiful and smart, but not much, because it’s important to show your interior, your cHarachter, not only your appearence and your body and your face.
    It’s so important that you listen and ask some questions, not a lot, because it should BE LIKE A THIRD DEGREEinterrogater.
    In my opinion in the first date you shouldn’t have a first kiss, because you should know more a person.
17. Andrea Barrós 20 February 2010 at 21:36

    Hello Rosa.
    In my opinion the first date should not be late, but should pray to get to the place where you stayed. YOU Should be well dressed, not WITH the first thing YOU find IN the closet.
    This should lead to drink, and then make a turn. ????
    You shouldn’t talk about past relationships, past or anecdotes, but YOU should talk about things today ???and if it was related to him / her. It should highlight their HIS / HER qualities. If at the end of appointment DATE you feel comfortable and you could see that something else YOU could have made you your first kiss together. You should be yourself, you shouldn’t pretend to be someone you’re not.
    Bye!
18. jose acosta 21 February 2010 at 11:29

    Hello Rosa,
    In my opinion, I think the first date that staying with aTIME YOU GO OUT WITH A girl, you must be as friendly and positive as possible and Wave.??????
    Trying yOU SHOULD TRY HARD TO ACHIEVE A PERFECT DATEeverything goes perfect, OR at least the first date is not a disaster.
    to sell clothing with clean teeth …IT IS ESSENTIAL TO GO CLEAN AND WELL DRESSED AS IT IS IMPORTANT
    and more powerless becauseTO CAUSE good impression to THE other person.
19. Marta Cucurull 21 February 2010 at 12:05

    In my opinion:
    You should wear smart.
    You should diner in a expensive restaurant.
    You should small always.
    You should to be yourselve.

    You shoudn’t criticize her mother.
    You shouldn’t smoke.
    You shouldn’t shout.
20. Vanesa 21 February 2010 at 15:36

    Hi Rosa, on the first date you have to be cheerful and friendly. Send signals as smiles AND looks. Remember that A look is worth a thousand words.
    There are things you can never say like talking about ex-boyfriend, marriage, commitment or money problems or family. To go to the date you cannot go WITH too much makeup, you have go beautiful but simple. Remember to turn off theYOUR phone, not good to call you.
    You can be A BIT late for the date, but not too LATE! arrive 5 minutes late makes you apparently interesting.
21. Cristina Costa 21 February 2010 at 16:26

    Hello Rosa, I’m Cristina!
    In my opinion on the first day YOU shouldn’t speak of ABOUT my YOUR ex boyfriend.
    You should be romantic,friendly and nice. YOU shouldn’t get nervous and not get red.
    You should try TO overcome the shame. You should be well dressed. You should be a beautiful woman.
    YOU shouldn’t say bad words and you should be calm. You shouldn’t be stupid.We shouldn’t go to a mc donals, we YOU should go to the A romantic restaurant. You shouldn’t eat rapidlyQUICKLY. You should talk ABOUT family and be positive.
    You should remember, not to speak of the past and I YOU will have the MOST first beautiful FIRST date!
22. Irune Ariño 21 February 2010 at 16:54

    I think that in your first date, you shouldn’t talk only about you because you become weighed. YOUR DATE CAN GET BORED, OR EVEN THINK YOU ARE SELFISH.
    It’s very important that you should show you as you are, don’t tell lies about your family, your job, your friends, your hobbies… you shouldn’t try to be ANother person.
    You should laugh at his/her jokes; you must SHOW HIM THAT YOU ARE kind and funny.
    It’s essential that you shouldn’t talk about marriage or children.
    In my opinion, the First Date is only to know EACHOTHER.
23. Judit Gómez 21 February 2010 at 17:12

    Hi Rosa!
    I think that you shouldn’t be nervous and try that nerves can’t be with you. I think that going OUT WITH A PARESON FOR to the first date with nerves is the worst that can happen, IT is very difficult.
    On the first date you should remove talking. YOU SHOULD BE TALCATIVE, You shouldn’t be shy.
    I think you should be positive and especially never talk about your ex-boyfriend/girlfriend.
    You should ask him about he, their HIS/HER hobbies, family and job.
    I think you have to show as you AS YOU ARE AND NEVER pretend TO BE another person, if you do that, your first date can end badly.
    I’m not sure if IN the first date sTHERE Should be THE first kiss, in my opinion I do not think we should wait for the second date.
    Must be one of the first date to always remember with special person!
24. samia 21 February 2010 at 18:55

    Hello Rosa,I’m Samia.
    In my opinion ON the first day YOU SHOULD go to a quiet place for example go to the restaurant, park…
    You shouldn’t talk of my ABOUT YOUR ex boyfriend, you shold SHOULD speak SPEAK about friends, family…
    You shouldn’t stay BE nerbous. NERVOUS
    You shold be positive.
25. Enric Casanova 21 February 2010 at 18:57

    In my opinion on the first day you shouldn’t wear training clothes. The first aprence LOOK is the most important ONE.You should wear smart CLOTHES.
    I tHink that: You can make TELL some jokes but ALSO you should speak seriously. In my opinion the best place to go is TO the cinema at twelve o’clock because you are onlyYOU WILL BE ALONE. Of course after the cinema you should go in TO a restaurant to have something to drink.
    Good luck!!!
26. Carlos Duquee 21 February 2010 at 21:36

    In the first day, you should be relaxed and you should be SMART! the most important thing is the apparence, but the words too. You shouldn’t say stupid things but don’t be TOO serious EITHER! you should make her smile, she should remember this day like the best of her life. You should be interessed about her life, but you shouldn’t ask about her ex, you should ask about her hobbies, her favourite fiLms, songs, books… but give your oppinion, and if IT is different,you shouldn’t argue! you should treat her like a queen. And sure you’ll get another date with her!
27. Sílvia Martínez 21 February 2010 at 23:50

    In my opinion…
    On the firt date shouldn’t HAVE the first kiss.
    You have not submitted your parents.????You haven’t DON’T HAVE to go dressed as you are not, but as airbrushed, but informal.????
    You are going with theA boy, yOU should bring GO TO a romantic restaurant.
    The first date should BE short, ONLY three OR four hours.
    You should timly in the first date?????.
28. David Martinez Lopez 21 February 2010 at 23:52

    In my opinion in a first date you should be nice, show your tender side and BE natural.
    The date should be in one place that the two they WILL BE comfortable.
    I think most importantly is laughTO HAVE A GOOD TIME, who does not like fun? You shouldn’t go to eat with that person.
    In my opinion I don’t like eatING with someone unknowni DON’T KNOW MUCH.
29. Anna Sanchez 22 February 2010 at 19:39

    In my opinion, in a first date, you should wear smart clothes. To start you should be punctual. You can do the date in a restaurant or in a park, in a place where you can talk quietly. You shouldn’t be nervous and you shouldn’t force the conversation, you should be natural, and never talk about your ex. You should be apparently interesting, but no desperate. In my opinion is only a first date and there will be time for emerging feelings, don’t despair!!!
30. Judith Monfort Font 22 February 2010 at 22:21

    Hi Rosa.
    In my opinion the first time you’re out with your boyfriend, you should be well dressed. You
    should also find a good ROMANTIC restaurant that is romantic. You should not force a conversation,
    and also should have patience.You shouldn’t get up in the middle of the date. You shouldn’t talk about your family problems. You shouldn’t dress casual.
31. Laura Sayeras 23 February 2010 at 22:38

    From my pint of view I think the first date can not be talking about your personal problems or problems you may have at home with the family (if you’ve got) because the other person might think you’re a problem and this person is not feeling that you must have …????
    I also think that you should dress for the occasion and you have to be sympathetic and generous and certainly not lacking respect …
    Well this is not what would …………………???a first date .. Then if all goes well you can Cadara???? in different places, but the first date you feel good it is primary.
32. Alex Rodriguez 25 February 2010 at 16:49

    In my opinion,in a first date you should be patient, and be relaxED.
    I think that you souldn’t look AT others places for example at the wall, you have to hear LISTEN TO your partnerDATE.
    You shouldn’t tell much about your family, you should concentrate in your lifes, and tell thinks that are really interesting in your relationship.